"Happiness said to Me-I will be Yours after 5 Days,
But When I opened the Book of LIFE and browsed Through,
I realised the illusive LIFE, Cheat Life had only 4 chapters/Days
There was NO FIFTH DAY!!"
SO LIVE LIFE, ON YOUR TERMS EVERY DAY
We live our life on a daily basis sometimes full of angst and bitterness towards people we interact with on a regular basis. And after marriage the closest and most intimate interactions are those with the spouse. Conflicts, fights, arguments, verbal mud slinging become a common sight!
Have you ever observed an air hostess on duty in a flight. She has a polite and smiling face, eager to serve . She begins and ends each sentence with "SORRY, PLEASE, THANK YOU" Oh!! so much politeness! Amazing! One feels impressed with these flying fairies!
But you know most of it is unnatural, its unreal. Its a professional persona. She is at her best behaviour because SHE KNOWS the journey is going to end soon. PLUS she shares no intimacy with the passengers - SHE IS MERELY PERFORMING A DUTY THAT HAS FINITE HOURS.
Before marriage too, the couple dates occasionally in a nicely done up surrounding. They smile, they cootchie coo and generally have a ball of a time. THIS IS PARTIAL GYAN or KNOWLEDGE OF EACH OTHER'S PERSONALITY.
MARRIAGE BREAKS ALL THE VEILS AND BARRIERS and the dark sides of the personality are revealed in all their glory. NOW BEGINS THE REAL ADAPTABILITY TEST.
THE KEY IS TO NOT TAKE YOUR SPOUSE AT FACE VALUE ONLY. ACCEPT THAT S/HE IS A 3D ORGANISM and has many many facets to their personality.
At an astrological reading, I have personally observed astounding mismatches between a very much in love boyfriend -girlfriend. Their chemistry is great but as SPOUSES they will have a very tempestuous life since their roles as HUSBAND WIFE are at clash with each other;s natures.
Thus, recognise your spouse for the RICH TAPESTRY of emotions and layers he carries within him. EXPLORE EACH OTHER CAREFULLY AND THEN LEARN TO ACCEPT AND LOVE EACH OTHER.
This is the divine message that the Para Sciences like Astrology/Tarot/Palmistry also teach. THEY GUIDE YOU TO KNOW THE COMPLETE PERSONALITY PROFILE OF YOURSELF AND YOUR PARTENER SO THAT CHANCES OF MISMATCH ARE REDUCED AND YOU FIND COMMON PLATFORM TO INTERACT WITH EACH OTHER.